Rainy Day with a little thinking

Hi.... Good Morning 🤗

Today after dropping my son to school I am writing a blog.Today is cloudy no sunny day.Cool cool air are blowing and I am feeling very cold.It seems like rain will be coming .While coming back to home from school that time few drops of water were falling down onto us .We were in the bike and feeling too cold to stop our bike into the shadow of a tree and from that tree red red flowers were falling into the ground.The flowers were full scattered on the wet ground.And a muddy essence were coming from that wet soil.It was a very pleasant,,cool,rainy day be seemed.

No atall desire for any work only writing.Today if it would be the a Rainy Day that would be a best day for me.But here is no hope for that😩.So what to do.Eventhough I have lots more work to do but my mind is not ready for to do.

I can recall of those days of my schooling when our school had announced the rainy day for the terrible rain and all places got flooded .No one could move neither in office not in any place.I would enjoy the day very excitedly with my sis by sitting in the window side and seeking the senario of the outside.And having hot friend fish and chilli potato and hot tea made by my mother.And in afternoon khichri(mixer of grams amd rice).There was no hurry of getting late in anywhere.And my father had be listening news again and again .

We were that time living in the government quarters and our all neighbours joined and gathered in one place and some people went to club for indoor games and everyone had enjoyed that day.Those time television was not so much popular so most of the person preferred to join community to chat and we were useto of it.That time formality was not taking a major part to judge anyone or it was not atall showing presentation for whom those maintain formality in our present life.

Our friends, relatives never informed us before coming to our house even we also did the same.That time hesitation, selfishness,self centred people were very less.Those people were very innocent,happy ,honest,pure human being.Those had no showing attitude or even did not hesitate to go anyone's house before informing.They were so liberal .When someone had come to our house we surprisingly got happy and greeted them very nicely and we also got the same invitation from others.

That time the economic power of people was very less and IT was not so much well known so people were dependable on each other.That time all people spent their time by talking,playing , reading books spending time with kids like that.No laptop,cell phone no tablets were available.Only touching sensation ,manually doing were everything that time.People had time to talk with each other, Spending time together by watching theatre (movie).Mechanism  was a small part of life that time.

But what about today.Today we are celebrating our IT sucess, getting too much salary in the end of the day, spending money unnecessary including us also.No that much effort to earn money.All we are trying to get jobs out  of India ,out of our nation or competing to be best.We are earning too much money after that also we are not ready to spend a one Penny on a poor person or needy guy that time we are so calculating and maintaining our each and all formality.Maintaining rules,regulations ,fomalities ,dos and don'ts .After that also we are not getting satisfied , trying to achieve more ,more success . 

There is no limitations of happiness.Giving too much sugar in desert make the dish more sweety but is it healthy?Yes now a days our lives are so critical ,problemetic.But over awareness on any thing can damage the thing.Did you ever noticed those poor people who lives on the road side how happy they are all the time.They everyday go to their work and earn,no tension ,no worry,no future planning.They eat in right time and seeep.They believe in present.Maybe less education is a main factors for that.Yes we may not be like them but sometimes we should let go what is happening in current situation.That will make our lives more easy, tension free, happy, stress less.

Today I am talking all this because when I was passing from one road that I have noticed the differences between one poor person and other rich guy.

Yesterday in raining the house of that poor guy was broken but he was still trying to build it again with patience and with smiley face.It was seemed like he knew that how to handle the problem with life.

On the  the other hand one rich guy with BMW Car sitting inside and looking around the road that time one Pani Puri (snack vendor)guy felt down infront of him while crossing the road with huge luggage.That rich guy came out from his car and after getting down he was so angry and asked why he was not wait to cross while car was coming? And within so many arguments that rich guy could not hold his temper and slapped the poor Pani Puri vendor.This is how we should expect from?

He did not think what would be if the vendor might be die! His family's only earning member is he only.That rich guy was thinking about himself only .Why he came and create a problem while going to a auspicious journey! By seeking that I thought maybe that guy is irritated on some things or behaviorally he is rude.

I don't know what is the reason behind of this incident but one thing is clear that Money Doesn't Make Us Rich.

In our society some people are there those who think that they have money, wealth too much by that they can buy anything.They can buy anyone if specially that guy is poor or economically is not strength.

But my dear friend God is very kind on us ,do you know that? God all time takes a life test of us.Economic power is not equal to happy, simple,loyal,honest, truthful,kind,innocent life.We can not buy all these things by money.Maybe some incidents temporarily are solved by money but not the route problem of life.Even "Bhagaban Ramkishna" also said "Taka Mati Mati taka". Means here is actual value of money is equal to dust.So who we are to judge someone on the verdue of economic power!!!!! We are no one to humiliate or criticise someone who doesn't have money.If god is so powerful and kind it can be opposite turn to you or maybe boomerang on you.

Our bad behaviour towards someone who is maybe facing problem economically only presents our mean mentality,our poorness,our illterate behaviour nothing else.

Helping poor people, behaving good with others,kindness on weak people and down to earth behaviour can make us a rich human being not the money can do.

If you have lots more wealth build you as you have.Avoid the mean mentality,showing attitude, only formalities, so called tradition.

If you are happy in roadside tea Stall by having a cup of tea,or else enjoy by wearing less expensive non branded clothes,or enjoy wearing junk jewellery rather than gold or diamond be like that.Be your self.Dont get makey to be a good wife of a family .If your partner can understand you he or she will be happy how you are . Only will fall in love on you not  on your dressing sense or jewellery.

How we are that is our present identity.It depends whather  we want to make us good or bad,fake or real.Its completely our own choice.

So what you think.Let me know.Bye ....Have a nice day ☺