How Actual Education Is or Punishment ???????

In today's life Education is compulsory for everyone .In past also it was compulsory but there was no need to mention that because there was no doubt regarding Education System.So when our elders started their education they did not have that much of competition during Childhood.And their parents also so liberal and happy with their performance that those happiness and encouragement reached their children to achieve their entire goal easily.They were so confident and made their children also confident on himself.Confidence, Encouragement are the main keys for any achievements.

But now a days for our Education System children are smashing into it.In India there are ICSC,CBSC,State Board,International Education System etc.They are only running behind the train, sometimes catching the train sometimes not.
That failureness taking them into a deep frashtration .And for this frashtration and unwilling behaviour most of the time we parents , schools, society are thr responsible Figure.

We parents always actually had desire to be placed ourselves in a grand position but maybe that not happened yet so from that disappointment we are getting too much demanding on our small children.Actually we want our shadow exactly on our child.So for that to achieve the goal we anyway start our things to do.We don't worry about our children only want our children to be  seen Winner,The High Scorer,The Leader,Soft Spoken a Milky Good Boy or good girl.We behaving like shame if she or he not responses or not behaving well manners in front of all.We like to see our children to be presented like a Super Hero /Doll with all the qualities Eventough we may not be have.But does not matter whether we have those qualities or not.We think that we are providing all the facilities to our children so our children should be like our choices.

Even in School also they are taking too much fees but not even have some few qualities to handle small children.They always ready to complaint against our kids .

They have drawn a specific figure of a child should be.If it's not happened they think that there must be any problem or issues with that child.They track him and try to notice again and again.And they judge which types of behaviour should be.They are our so called Teacher.From childhood it's said to us that Teaches give us education and lessons.But this is the actual Teacher.This is the biggest question for us!!!!!

Even in society also some people not let the children peacefully.They always compare to that child with other children and criticice them. Not even know how to encourage , appreciate a kid in all small small things.

Mainly in 2-8 age groups of children are facing major difficulties in education and struggling to achieve the highest marks . Because from three sides like Parents, Teachers, Society they are pressurised.So where our children will go!!!

All time they are struggling to achieve their goals maybe education maybe in any competition anywhere.There is no time to Breathe.Is this acivements or rat ress!!

In this age groups can they take these load and carry? This is the time where they should not be in any pressure .What how  when they want to be or want to play let them to be.Freedom is very important to be a proper Human being.So let our children to be what they actually want don't pressurise to be our dream boy.

Because our happiness is nothing without their happiness.Their happiness maybe comes by Playing Dirt, Making Clay Dolls, Running Behind the Kite, Enjoying Colours by wiping out all over the body, Getting Dirty in a Smashy Clay or Having Fun with Other Children.Let them to be decided what they actually want.

Discover their happiness and enjoy together by Spending Time , Having Meal, Watching Horor Movie, Playing With Water or Dirt.Be like them.

If we think that our children are really specious for us then in future really they will become a very Good Human Being with all the human qualities.Education will not be  a Punishment for them.There will be no need of struggling being a Milky Good Boy.☺