10th Marriage Anniversary of us
Hiiii...Good Afternoon
Yesterday I did not post any blog of mine.Because I was busy with my family.Yesterday was our 10th marriage anniversary.We celebrated it with lots more fun and had spend time together by holiding our hands with lots more future promises .
It was a amazing day and we felt that lastly we had completed the hole 10 years ..o my god!!!! In between there was so many arguments, conflicts, misunderstanding, fighting,quarrel... but most important things were Love,Affection,Sympathy , empathy from each other those are very important keys to knot or strength the relationship in a longer way.
Don't think that all the successful relationship has gone always in a smooth way.They have to also cover somany thorns of a path.
When I got married that time I just had entered in my new family where all members ,ambiences were completely new to me.I seriously did not know any house hold cores that time.First time when I made a tea you can't believe it was really so so bitter.Because in my mother's house we were useto of having leaf tea and in my husband's house they were useto of having CTC with which I was not useto and making procedure also i did not know.For cooking ,house hold cores it was a really big challenge to me.
In my first month of marriage when I was in Hyderabad that time one day my husband told me to cook chicken.I was get shocked and nervous because did not know how to cook.Even did not know how to switch on the gas.For me all thins were experimental.Then after lots more effort I tried to able to fry onions and garlic but after that I mixed it with all chicken directly and poured water into that .And lastly no one were able to have the chicken because it all the spices including chicken were become raw.😂😂😂
For these types of experiences I had to listen many criticism from many people around me some people really had been laughing behind of me by seeking my those condition instead of helping me.But I think that was a good thing to grow me.Many criticism,bad behaviour were a actual a learning phase for me and I had taken it very positively which had helped me to reach in my recent position where I can compete with anyone in anything.
In my recent position in ten years I really thankful,glad to my husband,mother and YouTube and some websites without whom I might not be able to learn anything.So this is the one part I am sharing with you.Other than that also in many places I had to be fall in awkward position for not knowing the house hold work.
In our society there are very less people those who really bother about a girl when she gets married.They always try to pull her leg by criticism or laughing back of her .Still helping hand in our society are very less.
Actually in our Bengali culture most of the majority of girls do not enter kitchen before marriage.But my suggestion for newcomers those who will be getting married is please practice all the house hold work before marriage for herself only .Because after marriage if we ladies are little caughing also that maybe track as a big disease or fault of us according to Sasural.It will remain the same.
In my 10 years of marrige we really have bonded with each other.From every small small things I had learnt from my hubby who is a real good ,soft,kind hearted a life coach and my best buddy with whom I share my all emotions , feelings.He always in anywhere encourages me ,never disappoints me or criticises or humiliates me.I am really very very happy, hopeful and honoured by getting this kind of person as a husband.I am also a great honoured by becoming his wife.He is wonderful person .Gradually gradually ,everyday I am inventing him in a new way.
Time speaks everything....time proves everything..... Without the god blessings I might not be able to get or meet this kind of wonderful person.I really thankful to God to send my wonderful life partner to me.I pray to God that want to stay the hole life with him as it is blissfully.
Yesterday at night I made a special chilli fish and vegetable fried rice for anniversary special.Yesterday we didn't go to restaurant which is normally happened every weekend.Yesterday I tried to make something special for him and my son with love.And i will be sharing my recipies in my Recipes page.So chill.
I made yesterday for anniversary special...❤
Ok now going to close my writing for now and saying bye...see you soon... enjoy..🙂
Yesterday I did not post any blog of mine.Because I was busy with my family.Yesterday was our 10th marriage anniversary.We celebrated it with lots more fun and had spend time together by holiding our hands with lots more future promises .
It was a amazing day and we felt that lastly we had completed the hole 10 years ..o my god!!!! In between there was so many arguments, conflicts, misunderstanding, fighting,quarrel... but most important things were Love,Affection,Sympathy , empathy from each other those are very important keys to knot or strength the relationship in a longer way.
Don't think that all the successful relationship has gone always in a smooth way.They have to also cover somany thorns of a path.
When I got married that time I just had entered in my new family where all members ,ambiences were completely new to me.I seriously did not know any house hold cores that time.First time when I made a tea you can't believe it was really so so bitter.Because in my mother's house we were useto of having leaf tea and in my husband's house they were useto of having CTC with which I was not useto and making procedure also i did not know.For cooking ,house hold cores it was a really big challenge to me.
In my first month of marriage when I was in Hyderabad that time one day my husband told me to cook chicken.I was get shocked and nervous because did not know how to cook.Even did not know how to switch on the gas.For me all thins were experimental.Then after lots more effort I tried to able to fry onions and garlic but after that I mixed it with all chicken directly and poured water into that .And lastly no one were able to have the chicken because it all the spices including chicken were become raw.😂😂😂
For these types of experiences I had to listen many criticism from many people around me some people really had been laughing behind of me by seeking my those condition instead of helping me.But I think that was a good thing to grow me.Many criticism,bad behaviour were a actual a learning phase for me and I had taken it very positively which had helped me to reach in my recent position where I can compete with anyone in anything.
In my recent position in ten years I really thankful,glad to my husband,mother and YouTube and some websites without whom I might not be able to learn anything.So this is the one part I am sharing with you.Other than that also in many places I had to be fall in awkward position for not knowing the house hold work.
In our society there are very less people those who really bother about a girl when she gets married.They always try to pull her leg by criticism or laughing back of her .Still helping hand in our society are very less.
Actually in our Bengali culture most of the majority of girls do not enter kitchen before marriage.But my suggestion for newcomers those who will be getting married is please practice all the house hold work before marriage for herself only .Because after marriage if we ladies are little caughing also that maybe track as a big disease or fault of us according to Sasural.It will remain the same.
In my 10 years of marrige we really have bonded with each other.From every small small things I had learnt from my hubby who is a real good ,soft,kind hearted a life coach and my best buddy with whom I share my all emotions , feelings.He always in anywhere encourages me ,never disappoints me or criticises or humiliates me.I am really very very happy, hopeful and honoured by getting this kind of person as a husband.I am also a great honoured by becoming his wife.He is wonderful person .Gradually gradually ,everyday I am inventing him in a new way.
Time speaks everything....time proves everything..... Without the god blessings I might not be able to get or meet this kind of wonderful person.I really thankful to God to send my wonderful life partner to me.I pray to God that want to stay the hole life with him as it is blissfully.
Yesterday at night I made a special chilli fish and vegetable fried rice for anniversary special.Yesterday we didn't go to restaurant which is normally happened every weekend.Yesterday I tried to make something special for him and my son with love.And i will be sharing my recipies in my Recipes page.So chill.
Ok now going to close my writing for now and saying bye...see you soon... enjoy..🙂
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