How Love Is ?????
When we love someone many times we may not be able to understand that and we get into many confusion and sometimes frashtrated , irritated or getting too much emotional but don't know why these all are happening with us.we get stuck our minds and not able to take any diction or move forward.Actually we don't read our mind that what is happening .
If one guy falls into Love these all happened with him and takes too much time to understand that and that time either his or her love one enters to another relationship or gets married for this delay.Today I will tell you how to understand and make sure that we are in Love and the consequences.
Love means someone you tolerating after so many nagativity ..easy to go anywhere with that guy..no hesitation of telling anything ....no worry...can spend time together the rest of a day easily... feeling jealousy by seeing that your precious one giving complements to other male or female....can also tolerate mental or physical torture by spouse(in many cases it had been seen).... feeling of Joy all the time being with him ,sometimes fighting or getting into arguments but lastly try to convince anyway... felling lonely when she or he will be in other places... missing him... calling again and again... maybe there is nothing to say....but sometimes silence speaks a lot than conversation... getting angry sometimes without any reason on your specious one and expectes a bunch of red rose and candle light dinner like a princess or Prince.... Loves to get proposal one by one in different methods from that one guy only... sometimes seriously worry if she or he getting late in a pre dating or coming back to home... sometimes misunderstanding but when the day finished they both try to please each other by giving their favourite gifts or a warm hug... stay connected with her/his love ones physically or mentally... looking attractive always in his or her eyes maybe she or he getting older or discreased beauty... attachment.... compatibility but it's also known that "Opposites Attracts" after that also some common route factors maybe hidden in them.. Empathy...not predictable... Commitments.... adjustment... Complete devotion...taking any dicition together...these all are Love Signs or you can say a big Love.
Actually it's very difficult to define Love.Its actually spiritually inner attachment of two souls . whether no condition, demand, rules or regulations, contracts are there.Its an inner feelings a chemistry.
Infatuation is Love? Sometimes when we stay in a relationship temporarily or falling love in first sight or love at first sight those all are actually Infatuation . Where no long lasting relationship will be seen and no one is agree to be committed but in actual Love there is no love at first sight .It's a commitment by which they take diction for staying together unconditionally the hole life with the labeled of Sacred Marriage.
In our India at Bengali culture Saraswati Puja is celebrated as a lovers day.In that day all boys and girls wear Sari and Dhuti(Indian dress) for"Anjali"(serve flowers to God). Then all school and college distribute "Bhog Prasad"for students.In evening all teenagers go out in many places like park, Victoria,restaurant, many more places and dressed in special look by wearing Sari or Dhuti .They express their love by proposing him/ her in candle light dinner or maybe in a romantic place.That day is maybe a begining of love for beginners and anniversary for them those who committed already.Its Bengali's "Valentine's Day".I am talking on Bengali because I am itself a Bengali.
So next 14 th February is coming for Valentine's Day in all over the countries.They will express their love or maybe will make their relationship more stronger by loving unconditionally ,devotingly,more expressively.But all will be in Love maybe it can be with mother or father maybe husband, boy friend, girl friend or friend or pets.
But loving someone means most of the time it can be tragic may not be happy ending.For this we have to go many Thorn of path .Love is blind that's why when our partners do mistake also we can't even imagine or just behaving like nothing happened with knowing all the truth.
I can tell you one incident of one pair who now committed but before that they lived together under one roof many years before marriage and the girl was really bad .She actually was very vulgur and humiliated him and felt down in many relationship including committed.She even did not care about anyone and did whatever she wanted .Even she caught many times in a awkward position in public places with other guy.Knowing all the things the boy who loved him unconditionally now her husband had tolerate everything and made him understand that she was doing wrong .He was so so hopeful about their relationship that ultimately after lots more effort he able to show the right path of love.Thats why they are together now and have a baby . This incident I am sharing with you to show that love is blind .If there could not be any madness,any blindness then no-one could be able to accept that loose character girl.But that guy did because actually he loved him a lot where no words to express his feelings and he succeeded.
Many philosophers , author, writer or many people have said that love is not be lasted with the same guy hole of the life till death .It's varsatile or changeable.But I think if it's can't be because it's not atall our dress materials or daily needs where we can change it again and again if we don't like it.It is a lusting inbond committed relationship where the pairs are the two human being those are remain the same only sometimes situation need to be changed for the better growth.I have seen long lasting relationship in my parents ,aunts,with 50 Years of marriage anniversary.They had gone many ups and downs after that also they are together because of Love.
I personally believe Love in bonding with Marriage and long lasting relationship with the same guy to whom I loved,love and will love for ever and ever .I am little crazy ,little unpredictable,moody, little possessive,transparent ,committed a woman with her loving husband and kid.
Happy Valentine's Day to all my friends in advance.Be happy with your love ones ever and ever.😊
Actually it's very difficult to define Love.Its actually spiritually inner attachment of two souls . whether no condition, demand, rules or regulations, contracts are there.Its an inner feelings a chemistry.
Infatuation is Love? Sometimes when we stay in a relationship temporarily or falling love in first sight or love at first sight those all are actually Infatuation . Where no long lasting relationship will be seen and no one is agree to be committed but in actual Love there is no love at first sight .It's a commitment by which they take diction for staying together unconditionally the hole life with the labeled of Sacred Marriage.
In our India at Bengali culture Saraswati Puja is celebrated as a lovers day.In that day all boys and girls wear Sari and Dhuti(Indian dress) for"Anjali"(serve flowers to God). Then all school and college distribute "Bhog Prasad"for students.In evening all teenagers go out in many places like park, Victoria,restaurant, many more places and dressed in special look by wearing Sari or Dhuti .They express their love by proposing him/ her in candle light dinner or maybe in a romantic place.That day is maybe a begining of love for beginners and anniversary for them those who committed already.Its Bengali's "Valentine's Day".I am talking on Bengali because I am itself a Bengali.
So next 14 th February is coming for Valentine's Day in all over the countries.They will express their love or maybe will make their relationship more stronger by loving unconditionally ,devotingly,more expressively.But all will be in Love maybe it can be with mother or father maybe husband, boy friend, girl friend or friend or pets.
But loving someone means most of the time it can be tragic may not be happy ending.For this we have to go many Thorn of path .Love is blind that's why when our partners do mistake also we can't even imagine or just behaving like nothing happened with knowing all the truth.
I can tell you one incident of one pair who now committed but before that they lived together under one roof many years before marriage and the girl was really bad .She actually was very vulgur and humiliated him and felt down in many relationship including committed.She even did not care about anyone and did whatever she wanted .Even she caught many times in a awkward position in public places with other guy.Knowing all the things the boy who loved him unconditionally now her husband had tolerate everything and made him understand that she was doing wrong .He was so so hopeful about their relationship that ultimately after lots more effort he able to show the right path of love.Thats why they are together now and have a baby . This incident I am sharing with you to show that love is blind .If there could not be any madness,any blindness then no-one could be able to accept that loose character girl.But that guy did because actually he loved him a lot where no words to express his feelings and he succeeded.
Many philosophers , author, writer or many people have said that love is not be lasted with the same guy hole of the life till death .It's varsatile or changeable.But I think if it's can't be because it's not atall our dress materials or daily needs where we can change it again and again if we don't like it.It is a lusting inbond committed relationship where the pairs are the two human being those are remain the same only sometimes situation need to be changed for the better growth.I have seen long lasting relationship in my parents ,aunts,with 50 Years of marriage anniversary.They had gone many ups and downs after that also they are together because of Love.
I personally believe Love in bonding with Marriage and long lasting relationship with the same guy to whom I loved,love and will love for ever and ever .I am little crazy ,little unpredictable,moody, little possessive,transparent ,committed a woman with her loving husband and kid.
Happy Valentine's Day to all my friends in advance.Be happy with your love ones ever and ever.😊
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